I recently became interested in the Shingo Model, which I learned about from Dear Daughter who is completing an MBA with a Shingo Model emphasis. I even did an online training and got a certificate — Go Me!
I love learning!
And that is why I am not making attainable goals in 2024.
Nope.
I am going for perfection.
This is me on a New Year’s Eve two-hour Peloton bike ride 💪🏼
One of the Shingo Guiding Principles is Seek Perfection — and that kind of blew my mind, which was good because it caused me to reflect about this as it relates to goals — and Life, with Dogs.
Sparkle: “Great, could we go on a perfect walk now?”
We get a lot of messages about not trying to be perfect, and the need to make goals that are realistic and achievable.
It is like we build in permission to have defects so that we are not sad and disappointed when it isn’t perfect.
Huh?!
Upon reflection, that seems kind of bonkers.
Why not learn how to not be sad and disappointed when something isn‘t perfect? Those are, after all, just thoughts and feelings that originate in our own minds (unless you are possessed by demons, which is a different problem) and therefore, we have the ability to choose NOT to feel sad and disappointed.
Personally, I do not enjoy sadness or disappointment and so I will not be signing myself up for extra portions.
What if we learn to see defects, errors, and mistakes as invitations to quickly and thoughtfully course correct on the path to perfection?
Wait, WHAT?!
A mistake as an invitation to get closer to perfect and not an opportunity to feel badly about ourselves or poke at our bruises — or blame our dog?!
Exactly.
Ponder that, if you would.
And HAPPY NEW YEAR.