The Price of Motherhood, Real and/or Potential

A maybe pregnant dog combined with a goal-oriented planner-type human with an inadequate supply of patience is a fraught combination. I manage it — barely — with flow charts for the two possibilities.

If Capella is pregnant, then XYZ can happened.

If Capella is not pregnant, then ABCDEFGHI can happen.

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Something that may not be obvious about breeding a working/show dog is that there are significant opportunity costs.

A simple example — there is a local agility trial coming up. Normally I would have been training for it and Capella would be entered. But because I am extra careful with a potentially pregnant dog, we haven’t been training/conditioning for agility and that means even if she is not pregnant, I can’t enter her — she won’t be ready.

Capella

If Capella is pregnant, she won’t do any conformation shows for months, pushing goals well into 2027.

If Capella is pregnant, I can’t travel for TDX tests, pushing that goal for Starry into the future.

Starry G for Gritty

But if Capella is not pregnant, I need to try again and that means I will lose more time and opportunity in 2027. Adding motherhood into the lives of multi-tasking dogs (and their human) is harder than it looks — for all kinds of reasons.

Capella

And it is expensive. I have spent just about $3,000 breeding Capella on this cycle alone.

Consider that I had two failed breeding cycles with Capella due to semen issues that were not known until it was too late 💸

Capella

I learned my lesson — a stud dog must have a semen analysis in the month before I will work with him. Good thing — a dog I planned to use for this breeding flunked the required semen test and I made a different plan as a result.

Definitely not how I feel these days 😂

One benefit of all the anxious waiting is you get to a point where all you want is to know the answer — whatever it is.

I am definitely there.

Happy Tuesday, Friend ❤️