Day 11 (Slightly Updated)

Mary-Ann Sontag June 15, 2025

I think the first 10 - 11 days of a puppy’s life is really just an extension of being in utero. Compared to other animals — horses, cows, and goats, for example — a new puppy or kitten is helpless and essentially still on life support, so to speak. Their engagement with the outside environment is basically nil — they eat and sleep and grow.

But now — Day 11 — we are really starting to see things change. As I mentioned yesterday, both Jasper and Sapphire have eyes that are opening. Puppies are attempting to stand and walk (okay — lurch). And this morning we have yet another emerging developmental milestone!

These open mouth photos — all taken this morning — are a sign that play is coming soon.

Mouthing will be their first play activity, and so we can see that they are developing awareness of their mouths.

Puppies — and development — are fascinating.

The next week should be action-packed with developmental milestones.

Jasper continues to be a bold adventure puppy, striking in his size, substance, head, and flashy markings.

He was the heaviest puppy at birth (17 ounces) and remains the Heavyweight Champion at 45.6 ounces as of this morning.

Handsome Sapphire, however, is gaining — literally. He is now 41 ounces; at birth, he was 16.2.

Weight gain for all four puppies is quite consistent. Jasper is 2.7 times his birth weight, Star Garnet is 2.6 times her birth rate, and Sapphire and Topaz are each 2.5 times their birth weight.

Happy Sunday ❤️

(Later)

Puppies are now sitting up and air scenting…

All four puppies now have eyeballs showing 👀 👀 👀 👀

Rosebud loves the new cat bed (aka the puppy scale).

A sweet look at all four 🩷💙💙💙

Sweet Dreams 💤

Day Ten (Updated)

Mary-Ann Sontag June 14, 2025

Four puppies is so easy. Well, four healthy puppies with an attentive mom is so easy.

This second week is an especially relaxed week. The puppies still spend all their time sleeping or eating. This is Jasper on Star Garnet.

But changes are happening! This is Sapphire on Star Garnet, and he has a tiny bit of an eye showing today!

Did you know the eyes do not open all at once? It happens over several days, which is for the best. Can you imagine going from darkness to EVERYTHING bright?!

Sapphire is also doing great in his practices for standing and walking — look at him! Practically a self-stacker already.

Star Garnet is the Queen of the Whelping Box.

Sorry, Sapphire — there are no kings around here.

Jasper and Sapphire say, “Not Fair!”

This is a fun photo that shows the faces of the three boys quite well. Yes, they are all trying to crush the Queen 👑

I hope you have a wonderful Saturday!

Evening Pics

The puppies had a busy day of (aspirational) walking…

…sitting practice…

…eye opening…

…vistors (n=5)…

…smooching…

…asking questions(!)…

…and lots of snoozing while also looking very cute.

In sum, it was a perfect puppy day 🩷💙💙💙

Day 9: Don't be a Hawk

Mary-Ann Sontag June 13, 2025

Lincoln, age 6, is a busy small human who tends to grab first and think later. This propensity to grab is very helpful at Costco because he is great at Grab Missions.

“Grab two cottage cheeses,” I can tell him — and off he goes, weaving between other shoppers to happily grab two cottages cheeses.

Like any personality trait, grabbiness has some real advantages.

But being grabby with puppies is not a good plan. Here is how I explained it to Lincoln:

“A baby puppy is the perfect size for a hawk to have for dinner. When a hawk swoops in and grabs the puppy, it is a fast snatch and the puppy dangles as he is flown away to be eaten 😬 So when we grab a puppy suddenly, it scares them because they think they have been snatched up by a hawk. You can tell it is scary for the puppy because they cry and get upset in their body.
When we pick up puppies, we have to do it in a way that lets the puppy know we are not a hawk. This means we are slow and gentle, and support their whole body.”

Lincoln got it. He moved in slow motion when picking up puppies while telling them out loud, “not a hawk, not a hawk.”

I know there are still those who do not understand that intentionally stressing out puppies is a Bad Idea. There are even programs that people follow to stress puppies 🤯 These are not evidence-based, FYI.

This is three puppies in one photo — Star Garnet’s face, Sapphire’s paw, and Topaz’s body as the pillow.

Stress does not make a baby more resilient — it just makes them stressed and anxious. Puppies and human babies develop resilience from a place of safety and security — not from a series of small “t” traumas.

My goal is to offer the puppies environments and experiences that are developmentally appropriate in order to generate opportunities for mastery. It is mastery — not stress — that develops confidence and resilience.

To experience mastery, the puppy — or human baby — needs to be able to comfortably accomplish a task and/or exist in an environment with a feeling of safety.

I worry that people may not be accurately assessing the difference between mastering a challenging stressor and the creation of learned helplessness. A puppy that stops responding to an inescapable stressor is not adapting — they are shutting down.

When we generate stress in a puppy that they cannot escape from and/or master, we are likely to activate a “freeze” response in the puppy. One of these puppies will be my next working dog — the last thing I want is a dog who has been hard wired to shut down in the face of stress!

I want a dog who experiences stress with a “Game On” attitude, knowing they can master the challenge. That starts early — in the whelping box — and so the challenges these puppies face must be ones they can master.